My boss doesn’t, like, involve me in meetings, and she’s, like, not interested in my opinions. I mean, she’s, like, dismissive of me whenever I, like, ask to be on a special, like committee, or, you know, group or something.
What can I do to, like, get her to respect me more?
Want to be a professional
Try speaking like a professional, or at least like a grown-up. It’s not hard to do; listen to the professional people around you.
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Spotlight: Speaking of Professionalism
People sometimes wonder what is meant by ‘professionalism’. It’s a term that is used a lot to describe a level of achievement or behavior, presumably typified by proficiency and integrity. In many fields, it also refers to a style of speaking, one that reflects attention to standards of correctness. This professional style of speaking is one that can be appreciated and understood across lines of industry, age, or job title. It usually doesn’t include the slang or buzzwords that one might use with friends or social associates. Problems sometimes arise when people fail to switch from their casual speech patterns when they’re in professional settings, and they risk being perceived negatively. Unfair? Maybe – Life isn’t fair – and language does matter.
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